Reexamining Your Values

Reexamining Your Values

You may want to change your values when you understand and accept where they are taking you, and you realize that what you appear to value right now will not enable you to enjoy the “best” possible life for you.. But your values are just a measure of the current direction you’re headed right now. And in most cases these two things are in congruent, meaning that your current values are not aligned with the course of your life.

I want you to take a moment right now to get in touch with what this really means to you personally. If you keep living by your current values, then you can expect to get similar results to what you’re already getting, possibly a little better if you apply them more consciously. But most likely there is some part of you that isn’t satisfied with where you’ll end up if you keep following this same course.

Will you never experience an intimate, loving relationship?
Will you never have children?
Will you never become wealthy?
Will you never develop an outstandingly energetic physical body?
Will you never travel around the world?
Will you never be able to help your favorite cause?
Will you never feel that you’re living in total accordance with your spiritual beliefs?

Now what if all these “never” could suddenly become possible for you? How can they? They can become possible for you by shifting your values.

When you re-prioritize your values list and consciously act on it, you change your behavior and therefore your results. And this can lead to incredible new experiences.

For example, if your top value is health, and you’re already in outstanding physical condition, what would happen if you changed your top value to wealth? You would cut back on your workouts for a while and invest tremendous energy into becoming wealthy. Your investment in health would slide a little, but in the short-term, it probably won’t make a huge difference. Health may still be one of your top values, but it just isn’t number one anymore.. Now you decide to shift your top value to compassion, so you go out and use your healthy, wealthy self to compassionately help others. Through this process of consciously shifting your values, you’ve changed from a gym rat to an entrepreneur to a philanthropist. You’ve lived an amazing life. But if you always maintain your original values, you’ll only experience being a gym rat for your entire life. And most of your true potential would remain untapped.

If you fail to focus your energy on the goals that are truly important to you, some of them will slip away, and that’s a heavy price to pay. You may succeed in your career and never get married. Or you may get married but never enjoy a state of physical fitness. Think back to the big, meaningful goals that you’ve already accomplished. Didn’t you have to go through a period where achieving that goal became your top priority for a while? And in the process, you (probably unconsciously) shifted your values to accommodate that goal.

Whenever you achieve a major goal, that’s a good time to select a new goal and update your values list to accommodate it.

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